When you get to the stage where every comment is a cause for close inspection and analysis, and every challenge to your opinion is a cause for a fight, and every disagreement is an argument, and every joke is a serious offence...you have lost it! You have well and truly lost it!
You're way too serious and most likely you have forgotten what it was to enjoy yourself.
I strongly advise that you go out and have fun poste haste - rent a bouncy castle, hire some sumo suits...have a laugh - it will do you a world of good to let your hair down, look silly and relax.
Lighten up and stop making every little thing into drama of global significance and proportion: its really not the major league deal that you are making it out to be....
Really....you're just bored, boring and stressed and so you approach everything and make it stressful and boring, and you make it dramatic because it's the only thing going on in your life: its you, projecting yourself onto everything and everyone and repelling people and happiness away from you.
Look around. Alone aren't you?
Where's your phone? No mates calling? No where to go?
See?! Look what you are doing to your life!
Stop it.
Relax.
Have fun.
Smile.
There. Feels nice doesn't it?
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Lol made me laugh :D
Right back atchya! :D x
Wow is that the secret in getting rid of everybody?You mean I can stop my plan of dropping off the face of the earth?Thanks for the information,and for not being so selfish that you hide this secret from us and HORDE it all to youreself,that is a tell tale sign that you have a good heart.Congratulation you will end up in Heaven!
You are so right,it's amazing how bored people will use the tiniest little thing of no significance and make a whole Real Life Drama out of it,it makes you never want to talk to them nor be around them ever again because anyone who does interact with them will become a TARGET.Well,I for one will not be one ever again,instead I'll be watching it from a distance next time around when I'm not the object of their attack being used as a pawn to their staging the Drama,nor will I be an actor in it.
@Krystal Thank you my love! And yes, don't be a target for drama. Amazing how quickly we get sucked in, but its really SO not worth it :) x
I find it easier to just stay quiet these days. It works wonders. And like you said in your last post, I'm finding walking away from the walls easier because I've stopped caring and you're right. It's not worth it.
PS where's that bouncy castle??
Si,after all I have the gentle spirit and now the quiet spirit which only beautiful women have,the LOUD TALKATIVE spirit has been replaced as I sure don't want to be ugly.
Personally I don't think you can win these days. If you're quiet, people don't like it and if you're loud people don't like it. Best thing is to just stay quiet. You get in less trouble lol :)
I think the most important thing is to remain yourself throughout because other people come and go. And I agree with what you said earlier as well. That you end up becoming a target for other people's frustrations. I personally get annoyed when particular people (men!) misread and misinterpret what you say and mean because they choose to misinterpret it as they're lazy. I honestly believe they're on a different planet now. But anyway, thanks Krystal. I've realigned myself to how I've always been and so much happier. Your true spirit and nature always comes through. The rest you put down to experience. And as for the rubbish, you pick it up and throw it away. I'm done with certain types of people. Totally done. The reason why you become a target is because they don't understand you. Because if they did understand you, they wouldn't treat you in such a manner. I've now come to the understanding that there are certain types of people who are just arrogant and make people around them feel like s*** all the time. But i've learnt like Jas says, it's their own perceptions and insecurities of the world they project onto other people. They need to grow up and realise if things are going wrong, it's their own fault and they should just step up and take bloody responsibility for their own actions. Sorry, didn't mean to type so much...
It sure is refreshing and freeing to me to hear the TRUTH SI,thanks.The answer is then that these people,women in my case, are arrogant,and it's thieir choice to stay that way or not,and if they choose not to change then things will stay the same in their lives and they will always make people feel like skytur,since that's not a curse word in Icelandic.And well yes nobody understans me but the Lord because I'm highly unusual,but maybe you do.And I have to add that people in their 20's any more are total rassgot,that's not a curse word neither,but is in American English but I understand it that it's the end times and people have become lovers of their own selves,as well as the mothers have raised this generation to be spoiled brats.
Oh Krystal, I was just generalising. I'm giving myself advice more than anything else :)
100% right about spoilt brats and the signs of the end times...
Uhhh uhhhh I love a man so that can teach me English,are you by any chance SINGLE?
That brings up another subject, MARRIED men collecting a whole bunch of female fans on Facebook as friends to flirt with.
Ummmmm I'm female Krystal!! hahahahaha joker
Yep. Big no no to Facebook. It needs shutting down!! Let's start a revolution! lol
PS You're sooooooo weird. Like :D
Wow you are brave!I'll just have to accept the fact that you're female and not available to me.What is your e-mail address SI?
Just checking back for any new posts you may have written.
I’ve been a follower on your blog for a while now and would like to invite you to visit and perhaps follow me back. Sorry I took so long for the invitation.
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